Life iS..AS IS...

Life…

Now What is Life??? Does this sound strange question to you? Of course we all know what is meant by the word "life", but how would you define it? Is it unanswered question Or answer to every question ???How complicated it can be sometimes and at the same time, how easily it can flow from hands like a water, more you try to held, faster it flows between fingers…

I’ve always known my life as one which is set to be unpredictable and unconventional. I’m 22 and so many things have already happened in my life - things I would never imagine even in my wildest dreams. I guess a big part of all these coming into being is because I’m such a risk-taker. I know what I want and I do all that I can to get it, experience it, taste it....and that trait sometimes leaves me with heartaches, pain, tears.. but most important of all, it leaves me with no uncertainties.. I can peacefully move on with a content heart knowing that I did all I can, even if the ending wasn’t very happy, and I would have no "what if’s" lingering in my heart.. life is really so short to waste on fears, to waste time on making sure the path one will tread on is smooth and friendly.. nothing is certain in this world.. the bad times don’t always end up with bad outcomes.. they sometimes lead to happy endings.. and the bad times don’t last.. and at the end of them all, what counts is the person we’ve become after the trial, the lesson we’ve learned and the strength we have gained..yet there are times when you wish you could import the existing completely working build from a repository named as “LIFE” and alter a few events, few source code, in the past – convert some frowns to smiles, some wrongs to rights, some delays to some timely actions, some hatred to love, some garbage to something useful, and something incomplete to something complete,and making it BEST from the WASTE. In such a case, these “somes” and “somethings” and “undos” and “redos” and copying and pasting will be never ending!

Why isn’t our life as uncomplicated as computers? Why don’t we have certain keys like “Ctrl+Alt+Del” or “backspace” or “Esc” or “direct Shutdown option” ? If the modifications doesn’t work,why cant we just restore the build that was working from the SVN and start it again.If you take a wrong step or going in an ifinite loop,simply erase or delete it, if you have had enough of something/someone, dump it into the recycle bin and if you suddenly realize you need that particular thing (person!) again, just restore it/him/her.Oh how we would all love to have a recycle bin around!

Why can’t we just save something that we are just half way through and open it later and continue with it! And make different files and folders for everything and classify everyone and everything accordingly. (Well, do you really want to be that organized, are people that easy to understand so as to categorize them in specific groups - naaaaaaaaaah!!!!)

This feeling is entirely momentary – if our life were as predictable and trouble-free it would be mechanical and monotonous. Emotions will lose their importance because we would want everything to be just perfect and pleasurable. Expressions will be restricted to laughter and smiles; there would hardly be any exhilaration, surprises, anger, fear, suspicion, sorrow, jealousy and all… Hill Stations and Some Wonderful places usually a dreamy world will just be a nine days wonder and it will start bothering us real soon.

But Life is never so predictable and it can't be...So,we will have to spice up our routine and make the most of every single moment. For us, things happen only once, life happens just once and nothing recurs (cliched but the truth); and it is often the case that we don’t know what we have got it till it’s gone. Our Dreamy World would be weird and we tend to long for something that we don’t have so trust me when everything is so tranquil we would long for imperfection and chaos.

Come on, we are human beings we can't live without arguments, challenges, envy, hardships – we undoubtedly want to live without all these but practically we need them as a source of motivation to lead our lives.

Stop thinking that much about Life friendss?! Belive me that’s truth,but as they say, Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.


Tell you what, absence is just a few weeks…I’ll be back to share more.

Hence...

Comments

Shrinath said…
Well written you dont hide your feelings and have left no stone unturned in your description besides describin it as a source code for the techie you are!!
teacup said…
hey lovely write up...specially liked these lines,

"nothing is certain in this world.. the bad times don’t always end up with bad outcomes.. they sometimes lead to happy endings.. and the bad times don’t last.. and at the end of them all, what counts is the person we’ve become after the trial, the lesson we’ve learned and the strength we have gained."


and I agree...Life is Life with all the good and bad...it wouldn't be same if it only happy and good things...we'd never evolve!
Nainesh said…
Are Yaar, te to bahu sachi vaat lakhi che. I appriciate your thought process and expression skill. I believe in all that you have written, and doing the same but something is missing in me that you have definetly. I am always your fan. DON bhai. +Bobo
pandeyvivek said…
Now I guess that was something really quick and straight from the heart!
Your ability to align your thought process at any time is something really cool! Keep up the good work yaar!
After reading your blog i felt that u became much emotional about ur life. And wrote the thoughts which straight forwardly came from ur heart.
There are most of the truth of life decorated in such a nice way. As u r in techinal field u had also added some Techi things in ur thoughts.
Do u think this will happen? but one more thing,Life is like a game of cards. The hand that is dealt you represents determinism;
the way you play it is free will.
Unknown said…
Hats off to you dear... you have put up the truth about LIFE in such simple words & yet it is as dense & deep as the LIFE itself.... Really a commendable work done....
Anonymous said…
good write up... kep it up...
Hey cim ka banda.................

too good...........
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start leaving your dream.........i will be the first one to take your article..............